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50 Marriage Pointers
Jan. 26th, 2007 | 08:09 pm
- Start each day with a kiss.
- Wear your wedding ring at all times
- Date once a week
- Accept differences
- Be polite
- Be gentle
- Give gifts
- Smile Often
- Touch
- Talk about dreams
- Choose a song that can be “your song”
- Give back ribs
- Laugh together
- Send a card for no reason
- Do what your spouse wants before being asked
- Listen
- Encourage
- do it the other’s way
- Know your mates needs
- Fix his (or her) favorite breakfast
- Compliment your partner twice a day
- Call just to say “ I Love You”
- Slow down
- Hold Hands
- Cuddle
- Ask your spouse’s opinion
- Show respect
- Welcome each others home
- Look for the best for your mate
- Wink at each other
- Celebrate birthdays in a big way
- Apologize
- Forgive
- Set up a romantic get away
- Ask “what can I do to make you happier?”
- Be positive
- Be kind
- Be vulnerable
- Respond quickly to your mate’s requestz›¢_º¢°
- Talk about your love
- Reminisce about your favorite time together
- Treat his (her) relatives & friends with courtesy
- Send flowers every Valentines Day And Anniversary
- Admit when you are wrong
- Be sensitive to your mate’s sexual desire
- Pray for him (her) daily
- Watch sunsets together
- Say “I Love You” frequently
- End each day with a hug
- Seek outside help when you need it
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worst virus
Jan. 23rd, 2007 | 07:55 pm
A new virus has just been discovered that has been classified by Microsoft as the most destructive ever. This virus was discovered yesterday afternoon by McAfee . This virus simply destroys Sector Zero from the hard disk, where vital information for its functioning are stored.
This virus acts in the following manner:
It sends itself automatically to all contacts on your list with the title:
"A Card for You".
As soon as the supposed virtual card is opened the computer freezes so that the user has to reboot. When the ctrl+ alt+
So don't open any mails with subject: "A Virtual Card for You." As soon as you get the mail, delete it !! Even if you know the sender!!!
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Happiness
Jan. 21st, 2007 | 09:25 am
mood: 
thankful
For Beverly Smith-Kerr Happiness is difficult to do because some people think that they can only find happiness through wealth. Yes, it’s true. We do not realize that real happiness lies within us. It’s an inner state of whole being. And most importantly, we should not waste a single hour and sweat searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. There’s no real happiness in having or in getting, BUT only in GIVING. So, Reach out. Share. Smile. Embrace. Remember that, “Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.”
Try to read this short poem by Beverly Smith-Kerr:
Everybody, everywhere seeks happiness its true, but
finding it, and keeping it seems difficult to do.
Difficult, because we think that happiness is found only in the places where wealth, and fame abound.
So we go on searching, in new places with it's pleasures, seeking recognition, and money with its treasure's, unaware that happiness is just a state of mind, within the reach of everyone who take's time to be kind.
For in making others happy
we will be happy to.
For the happiness you give away return's to shine on you.
For more readings and thoughts, click here: Material Things Will Not Bring You Happiness.
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Falling in Love
Jan. 20th, 2007 | 09:22 am
mood: 
loved
Falling in love! What a romantic phrase! What magical words! Does it not bring a smile to your face when you hear those sweet words? It doesn't bring a smile to my face. I have coldly analyzed that well-worn phrase and here is what I have discovered.
Falling intimates a loss of control. Regardless how agile you are you can't choreograph your fall. You have no control of your limbs as they fall in an unsightly heap. A galoot in love seems to lose control of his own tongue. He will babble endlessly and tediously about his dear sweetheart.
Falling implies a temporal state. A few years ago there was a popular commercial in which an elderly lady fell down and cried out "I've fallen and I can't get up", but in real life when you fall you brush yourself off and get up again. You fall in love and when you regain your senses you fall out of love. Only in the movies do lovers walk hand in hand into the sunset and stay in love forever.
Falling suggests a factor of unpredictability. Unless you are involved in a scam, you can't plan a fall. A fall happens when you least expect it. Likewise you can't plan on falling in love at a convenient point in your life. You can't plan on graduating from college, finding a good job and then falling in love. Love happens when you least expect it. It hits you like a two-by- four right between the eyes.
Falling hints of pain. You can't fall down without experiencing pain, suffering a few bruises and maybe even a broken bone or two. When you fall in love don't expect everything to go smoothly. Expect bruised feelings and perhaps even a broken heart.
Falling brings to mind a loss of grace and composure. No clumsy oaf looks graceful taking a tumble. A victim gets up from a fall with a sheepish expression on his face. A buffoon in love will perform all sorts of circus tricks to keep the object of his love amused. There is nothing graceful about a man or woman in love.
Falling indicates a loss of free will. No person makes a rational decision to fall down. If you stub your toe on a rock, you will lose your balance whether or not you want to. A lover is no longer a free agent. He is the under the spell of his precious babycakes. He seeks only to do her will.
Falling points to inevitability. No matter how careful you are sooner or later you will fall down. Everyone falls down. Even nimble athletes fall down. You are only deceiving yourself if you think that you are immune to falling in love. As sure as the night follows day you will fall in love.
Yes! You will fall in love, but despite everything I have written, falling in love is not something to dread. The Bible states that "God is Love" and when we are consumed with love for someone else that spark of deity burns ever so brightly in us. Despite all the pain and despite all the misunderstandings, love is still the greatest thing in the world!
Nice, right? When falling in love, be sure you know your considerations, you know that pains may come after it. But the most important is you know how to jazz up your relationships with someone!